Kid's think Stupid is Smart

[CDA]

On a more serious note CDA, they'll come around. Daughters always come back to their Dads. Hope it is sooner rather than later for ya.

I searched this thread and found this quote by my Canadian friend. I have a picture in the "pics to remember" thread of my whole family together in the desert and said that this will never happen again. Well, it may just happen. I might have mentioned that my oldest daughter who will be 23 at the end of this week made a bold statement about me that severed our ties about 3 years ago. She hit pretty low below the belt and it has been weighting heavy on her mom and I for some time. My wife could not take it anymore and she made a promise to our son, that when he comes home from Chile in Aug 2011 she would have tried her best to get the family back together. (I knew she was a great manager for me) Well she picked up the phone Thursday and called our oldest and said she needs to make the trip out from San Diego Saturday and do a face to face with Dad (ME) and state your accusations face to face. My wife told me Thursday I could not make my event Saturday and told me why. I was a little upset and excited that she was coming to see us.

Well to make a long story short, my daughter did show up Saturday (I gave her no credit and thought she would not show) around 10am and we talked and cried for 4 hours at the dining room table. She apologized for the things she accused me for and I apologized for things I did not know I did. I told her I am still upset about the things that were said and it will take some time to get that behind me and I could not promise that our relationship will ever be as close as it once was, but I am glad we are on the right path now.

Now she needs to patch things up between her and her sister and once that happens, the family circle will be back together. If it all works out, I might have a huge family picture to take in the desert between 12/26 - 1/1. With only my Son missing from that one for now. So who would like to come out with me on that week and take that picture if it happens??????

So to go back to my friend's quote above.....You are right, Daughters do make their way back to their Dads. Speaking of daughters, my other daughter just logged in to her MSN messenger and is sending me a message...

 

[Travace]

that is awesome to hear CDA... i would love to come out and take that pic for you... what dez you planning on going to? I cant make a promise that i can make it right now but when the time gets closer i can try.

 

[CDA]

that is awesome to hear CDA... i would love to come out and take that pic for you... what dez you planning on going to? I cant make a promise that i can make it right now but when the time gets closer i can try.

Thanks Trav. I will most likely be in Spangler around the same place as the T-Day. Just closer for all our friends and family. When the time gets closer, I will create a thread...

 

[Naturaledge]

I searched this thread and found this quote by my Canadian friend. I have a picture in the "pics to remember" thread of my whole family together in the desert and said that this will never happen again. Well, it may just happen. I might have mentioned that my oldest daughter who will be 23 at the end of this week made a bold statement about me that severed our ties about 3 years ago. She hit pretty low below the belt and it has been weighting heavy on her mom and I for some time. My wife could not take it anymore and she made a promise to our son, that when he comes home from Chile in Aug 2011 she would have tried her best to get the family back together. (I knew she was a great manager for me) Well she picked up the phone Thursday and called our oldest and said she needs to make the trip out from San Diego Saturday and do a face to face with Dad (ME) and state your accusations face to face. My wife told me Thursday I could not make my event Saturday and told me why. I was a little upset and excited that she was coming to see us.

Well to make a long story short, my daughter did show up Saturday (I gave her no credit and thought she would not show) around 10am and we talked and cried for 4 hours at the dining room table. She apologized for the things she accused me for and I apologized for things I did not know I did. I told her I am still upset about the things that were said and it will take some time to get that behind me and I could not promise that our relationship will ever be as close as it once was, but I am glad we are on the right path now.

Now she needs to patch things up between her and her sister and once that happens, the family circle will be back together. If it all works out, I might have a huge family picture to take in the desert between 12/26 - 1/1. With only my Son missing from that one for now. So who would like to come out with me on that week and take that picture if it happens??????

So to go back to my friend's quote above.....You are right, Daughters do make their way back to their Dads. Speaking of daughters, my other daughter just logged in to her MSN messenger and is sending me a message...

That's heartwarming CDA Oustanding news.

 

[turrbodee]

CDA, I was very angry towards my father in high school, we didn't talk for 2 years, He apologized for his actions, it sucked ass graduating and not seeing your father there and many other things that hurt me in my teenage years.... We started talking again after 2 years and got back together and are closer than ever....As for my sister she still needs to mature, I love her but we still don't talk .... She has nothing but hurtful things to say to me and our family.....so I know one day when she's ready I will be there, well I always am but until she's ready, there's only so much I can do. My brother leaves for bootcamp next year

you will get your picture dangit!! haha

reminds me of a song.... love at home, and families can be together forever (CDA you know which ones I hope lol)

 

[Weathergeek]

Thanks Trav. I will most likely be in Spangler around the same place as the T-Day. Just closer for all our friends and family. When the time gets closer, I will create a thread...

Good to hear this and I hope it all works out. Knowing you, I can't believe it wouldn't as you are always helpful to others, even though are you are kinda gay.

 

[James]

I'm glad to hear that CDA.

 

[CDA]

CDA, I was very angry towards my father in high school, we didn't talk for 2 years, He apologized for his actions, it sucked ass graduating and not seeing your father there and many other things that hurt me in my teenage years.... We started talking again after 2 years and got back together and are closer than ever....As for my sister she still needs to mature, I love her but we still don't talk .... She has nothing but hurtful things to say to me and our family.....so I know one day when she's ready I will be there, well I always am but until she's ready, there's only so much I can do. My brother leaves for bootcamp next year

you will get your picture dangit!! haha

reminds me of a song.... love at home, and families can be together forever (CDA you know which ones I hope lol)

Yes I know those songs well.

With the hurtful things my eldest said toward me, it put a huge wall up between my other daughter and my son. With my Son serving his mission, he is more in tune and has told his sister that she needs to resolve this before he gets home and has a bigger heart than me. I just hope my two girls can resolve this between them. I cannot guarantee that my oldest and I will have a super close relationship as we did before, but we are closer than we were for the last 3 years..

 

[turrbodee]

Yes I know those songs well.

With the hurtful things my eldest said toward me, it put a huge wall up between my other daughter and my son. With my Son serving his mission, he is more in tune and has told his sister that she needs to resolve this before he gets home and has a bigger heart than me. I just hope my two girls can resolve this between them. I cannot guarantee that my oldest and I will have a super close relationship as we did before, but we are closer than we were for the last 3 years..

Yeah I understand, my sister and I don't talk because she treats us siblings and my parents like crap, if you heard what comes out of that girl you'd wanna slap her yourself..................... CDA baby steps, are good.... =]
And I might be in town around that time =] maybe I can have a chat

 

[CDA]

Good to hear this and I hope it all works out. Knowing you, I can't believe it wouldn't as you are always helpful to others, even though are you are kinda gay.

and . You wouldn't like me if I wasn't a little gay..I think Pete's Wife said i was gay, because I wear a fanny pack and backpack when riding....

 

[CDA]

Yeah I understand, my sister and I don't talk because she treats us siblings and my parents like crap, if you heard what comes out of that girl you'd wanna slap her yourself..................... CDA baby steps, are good.... =]
And I might be in town around that time =] maybe I can have a chat

Sounds good.

 

[Weathergeek]

and . You wouldn't like me if I wasn't a little gay..I think Pete's Wife said i was gay, because I wear a fanny pack and backpack when riding....

Good luck on this adventure, but I meant what I said. You WILL work it out, but will take time.

 

[Travace]

and . You wouldn't like me if I wasn't a little gay..I think Pete's Wife said i was gay, because I wear a fanny pack and backpack when riding....

ok i will definitely make it out to take pics as long as i can get a pic of this... ohh and you should bring your mid evil gear with ya

 

[James]

 

[josmoloco]

Kids these days. I am 20, will have my 4yr degree in december. Looking to be independent asap!